ARE YOU ADDRESSING THE CONFIDENCE GAP ?
What exactly is the confidence gap? Is it even real?
The confidence gap is very real—and it’s holding too many capable professionals back from realizing their full leadership potential. It’s not a matter of competence – it’s about visibility, voice, and owning your value in the room—especially in the rooms that matter.
In my coaching work globally, I see high-performing professionals—especially women and emerging leaders—struggling with self-doubt in meetings, hesitating to ask for meaningful roles, and waiting for permission to lead. The real truth is: leadership isn’t given. It needs to be taken – and it is confidence that bridges the gap between your potential and your impact.
How do we start closing that gap ?
1. Prepare with Intent, Speak with Impact
Confidence in meetings doesn’t mean dominating the conversation—it means being intentional about when and how you contribute.
Action Step:
Before your next meeting, review the agenda and decide which topic you can meaningfully contribute to. Prepare one insight, one question, or one solution. Then, commit to speaking within the first 10 minutes. This breaks the ice and anchors your voice early in the room.
Pro tip: Use assertive language. Replace “I just think…” with “I recommend…”. It signals credibility and decisiveness.
2. Ask for High-Visibility Assignments
Leadership isn’t a title—it’s influence. High-impact projects give you visibility with senior stakeholders and showcase your ability to deliver value at scale.
Action step: Schedule a 1:1 with your manager and express interest in leading or contributing to a strategic initiative. Position it as a win-win: “I’m looking to broaden my exposure to cross-functional work. I would love to explore opportunities where I can add value and contribute to the organization more.”
Make your ambition visible. Leaders don’t guess who wants to grow—they notice who asks for more and can provide the support needed.
3. Reframe Self-Doubt as a Growth Signal
Doubts, nerves, apprehension do not mean you’re not ready. It often means you’re stretching, but just need to find a way. Instead of interpreting nerves as a red flag, reframe them as proof you’re expanding your capacity.
Action Step: When you start hearing the inner critic say, “What if I’m not good enough?”—respond with, “I’m learning something new. That’s exactly where I need to be.” Confidence grows at the edge of your comfort zone.
4. Practice Visible Credibility
Confidence is as much about perception as performance. Stakeholders form impressions quickly—so how you show up matters.
Action Steps:
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Turn your camera on in virtual meetings.
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Sit forward, not back.
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Speak at full volume.
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Follow up with a crisp, professional summary of your contribution or next steps post-meeting.
These micro-habits build presence. And presence builds influence.
5. Build Strategic Advocates
Confidence scales when you have sponsors and mentors who believe in you—and say your name in rooms you’re not in.
Action Step:
Start by identifying one stakeholder you’d like to build a stronger relationship with. Request an informal coffee chat. Come with thoughtful questions, show curiosity, and share your leadership aspirations, ask for support, guidance and mentorship if possible.
People support what they’re invited into. Visibility begins with connection.
Ready to Own the Room—and Your Career?
If you’re ready to step up, speak up, and close the confidence gap—for yourself or your team—I can help.
As an executive coach, I partner with professionals and organisations to strengthen leadership presence, elevate team impact, and create cultures of high-trust and high-performance.
🔗 Let’s talk about how we can elevate your leadership potential or your teams potential
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